Where Guys Go Wrong With an Ex Who Keeps Blocking and Unblocking Them

Where Guys Go Wrong With an Ex Who Keeps Blocking and Unblocking Them

When she realizes that you’re emotionally strong regardless of what she does, she won’t be able to stop herself from feeling a renewed sense of respect for you as a Boston escort twitter man.

When that happens, she stops messing you around by blocking and unblocking you and she becomes open to talking to you on the phone, meeting up with you in person and letting things unfold from there.

It’s only natural that a guy will feel confused and even a little bit hurt by his ex’s erratic behavior.

Yet, when he realizes that his reactions are what will either convince her to unblock him for good, or block him permanently and move on, he will make sure not to do things that might turn her off.

1. Sulking or seeking pity for what she is putting him through by blocking and unblocking him all the time

Sometimes a guy might try to make his ex girlfriend feel sorry for him and feel guilty about the pain he is experiencing, by sulking with her and saying things like, “How can you do this to me? I know I stuffed up, but after everything we had together, I don’t deserve this kind of treatment from you. Why are you messing me around? Do you enjoy torturing me like that? I really thought you were a better person than this.”

Yet, rather than make a woman think, “Damn, he has a point. I really am treating him badly. He doesn’t deserve that,” she instead feels turned off by his emotional weakness and inability to handle her feminine nature (i.e. that side of a woman that will test a man’s confidence by blocking and unblocking him to see how he will react).

So, if you really want to get your ex girlfriend back, don’t bother sulking and trying to make her feel pity for you.

Instead, focus on reawakening her feelings of respect and sexual attraction for you, so she naturally decides to unblock you and open herself up to interacting with you, so that you and her can get back together again.

2. Asking her to make a decision and stop messing him around, when she’s not even re-attracted yet

As tempting as it might be to say, “Hey, you need to stop messing me around. If you want to block me, do it and if you want to unblock me, do that, but you can’t keep changing your mind and expecting it to be okay with me,” it’s not going to fly with your ex if you haven’t re-attracted her first.

Instead, it might simply backfire on you when she decided to block you permanently, which will make it more difficult for you to interact with her and get her back.

The more attracted you make her feel, the longer she will keep you unblocked, until she stops altogether because she no longer wants to be out of touch with you.

She will block you and refuse to talk to you again, making it so much more difficult for you to interact with her and get her back.

3. Being too nice or neutral when texting her and hoping that sparks will fly

Sometimes, when a woman is in one of her unblocking phases, rather than use it to re-attract her, a guy makes the mistake of texting her and being neutral or friendly with her (e.g. he texts things like, “Hi, how are you?” or “It’s been a while! What’s happening with you?”).

The woman then sees this and likely thinks something along the lines of, “Boring! He hasn’t heard from me in ages and this is the best he can do. I guess I was right in blocking him after all. This pointless chit chat is just a waste of my time,” and she then blocks him once again.